Wednesday, January 25

Korede's Thought: Hatred

Hate or hatred is a strong word, deep and extreme attitudinal dislike. It can be directed against individuals, groups, entities, objects, behavior or ideas.

Hatred is often associated with feelings or anger, disgust and disposition towards hostility. When you hate, you literally consider the person in question dead to you.


Why do we hate?

Is there a reason for humans to hate their fellow human being?

Deep down, everyone has something against each other but they never let it show, why?
`I can't stand him"
`she always make me sad"
`Is he\she the only person around who have to do it? Some will say, `J'ai Lahaine", which means, `Literally, I have hate", but psychoanalyist consider hatred as an attitude not an emotional state.

Though many of these reasons maybe true but really, hatred isn't the next step to take and the question we all ought to be asking each other is, Is it good to hate?

Can any of my behavior make someone to hate me? That's a reality check question which shows everything can't be perfect, because we live in a world which is not perfect, so you shouldn't expect to see a perfect human being who by all means have 100% perfection or 100% perfect reasoning.

Don't get me wrong, am not saying we shouldn't hate but while we loathe our fellow human being we should put in a good act of correcting the behavior to a friendly attitude.

What am trying to say here is that, let the person knows what irritates you about them and show them ways to which both of you can live together in peace while you're at it they will do the same for you.

Be a good influence to them by showing them their flaws and ways to get rid of it and in return they will do the same for you.

Today in our society there's all form of hatred like, bullying, verbal abuse, insults or offensive graffiti or letters, physical assualt, vandalism, harassment and so on which can bring about violence to our society.

According to the religious view on Hatred, which they called,`Perfect Hatred", which means, don't hate them but hate their sins, so let us all join hands together to say no to all kinds of hatred and its vices and while taking a stand against it don't let us forget to make effort to show them ways to get over the attitude so everyone can co-exist together without hatred and there will be peace in world.

And that's how Korede sees it.

Thanks for reading, kindly drop your comments below as you look forward to the next edition next week Wednesday.


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